All three instances with these “invisible aliens” occurred in three different places, with different groups of people. In the case of the first experience, and the third, the people involved were very heavily invoked in UFO and paranormal experience. In fact, these experiences began when they were children, and, extended beyond them to other family members.

In the second instance, where my husband was present, the only two people that had a life time of high strangeness, including UFOs, were myself and my husband. (We knew the other people there very, very well -- one was a relative -- and they did not have that history of experience.) It was during this event that my husband had also, for the first time, talked about his experience of the orange orb sighting, which added a new twist to things!

So it seems that a gathering of people with a life long experience a connection, -- a relationship -- with UFOs and possibly the paranormal, intently discussing these subjects, seems to invite or “call” these entities to stop by for a visit.

In that context, I think it’s fair to say that the pendulum was accurate.